I have a proof that my father is cheating on my mom. and im not prepared to do this. i have been expecting the divorce for so long, but now its real. if i tell my dad, i feel that he will choose the mistress over my mom and divorce her. i feel that if i tell my mom, she will get depressed and never tell him she knows. i feel like if i confront the mistress, my dad will find out and divorce my mom. the only solution i have is to give my dad an ultimatum. he leaves his mistress or i kill myself. im so lost and confused someone please help me. i know that none of u know me or comment on my posts but i need this. please someone answer me.